Teen daughter disowns mother in favor of cheating dad – years later she comes back begging

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After I divorced my cheating husband, my daughter remained with him and refused to see me… Years later, she came back to ask me to pay for her tuition. How should I respond after she ignored me for so many years?

The woman questioned her decision of refusing to help her daughter after years of not being in touch, wondering if she should still be there for her despite being disowned in the past.

The incident occurred when the woman, seeking guidance from fellow Redditors, tied the knot with a rich man.

The woman sought advice from other Redditors before marrying a wealthy man.

She convinced herself that he did it because she couldn’t be there for him enough due to her pregnancy, so she decided to forgive him.

But after a few years, he cheated once more, and she couldn’t tolerate his unfaithfulness anymore, so she made the choice to end their marriage.

His and her family did not easily accept this decision. Her parents advised her to forgive him once more and remain together for the sake of their daughter, whereas his parents believed that getting a divorce would tarnish the family’s reputation, considering they were wealthy individuals well-known by many.

The woman realized that remaining with her spouse would only intensify her existing misery, thus she made the choice to depart from him.

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Sadly, he had power and she lost the custody over their daughter.

The young girl kept hearing that her mother was a bad person, so she never tried to contact her.

It was extremely difficult for her not to be with her daughter, but the daughter had no contact with her mother for a long time. However, one day, she showed up at her mother’s doorstep, desperately seeking assistance.

The woman’s former husband ended up losing all his money due to poor business choices and couldn’t afford to cover his daughter’s college expenses.

The daughter returned to find her mother after a long time. She mentioned that she required financial assistance and desired to rebuild their relationship.

The woman was uncertain if her daughter truly had a change of heart or if she was just trying to mend their relationship because she needed money for her education.

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Even if she wished to assist her daughter financially, there was a condition in the woman’s will stating that if she paid for any of her daughter’s expenses, the daughter would have to give up her inheritance and not inherit her mother’s money and assets after her death.

In fact, the woman listed her goddaughter as her main beneficiary.

The family discovered this and confronted the woman, accusing her of being a neglectful mother. They continue to believe that she is a terrible person for choosing her goddaughter over her own daughter, who simply wanted to reach out to her mother during times of financial struggle.

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